Love's Gauntlet

Author: KnobleOne // Category:
In order to love someone you must first love yourself! Because if you can't love yourself no one is going to do it for you.

Open your heart- If you don't open your heart and to allow someone in you can never truely trust someone or be trusted.

Patience- Don't jump on the first person you see and NEVER!! settle for less because you too good for that no matter what living or financial situation or even ethnic culture you belong to, stick to your guns because ultimately your the one falling in love not everyone else for you.

Struggle- Expect to get turned down and don't blame yourself for it. Think of it as there losing out on a great person because you know your wealth and never lower it for anyone!

Fights- Not all relationships are perfect throughout, just know that compromising is something that needs to be done in a relationship because it's not "I" anymore its "We" and you have to think that way.

Trust- You have to be able to trust your partner because if you don't you'll live your life worried and cautious of every move they make and your only bound for failure that way. If you can't trust them then maybe it's time to move on because no healthy relationship succeeds with no trust.


If you can survive that gauntlet of things I just mentioned it is very possible that you can start to love or sustain love for a long period of time. This is my opinion and I am open to all that may want to comment to agree or disagree. Or if i missed something, lol

-KnobleOne

1 Response to "Love's Gauntlet"

Aisha Antoinette Says :
August 16, 2010 at 7:21 AM

Goos advice! You're a wealth of experience and knowledge. God bless you!

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